In talking to Lonnie today, we somehow got to laughing about the ignorant things people say. So, of course, that got me to thinking about the things I’ve heard people share with the grieving in hopes to bring comfort. I know there is nothing more uncomfortable then coming the head of the casket and trying to find the right words to say, but from personal experience, allow me to share some things not to say. I share these not because I’m offended; I know they've been shared with the best of intentions. But I share because they don’t serve to comfort the grieving and as far as I can tell, are not theologically correct.